A
Frank Interview
about Impotency
Many men are
experiencing
problems getting
rock hard
erections. There
are three ways
that men can get
over this, penis
enlargement
pills, viagra or
natural
enlargement
techniques. All
three will help
with the
problem. Below
you will find an
article which
discusses viagra
and one man's
problem with
impotency.
Today, I got a
chance to talk
to Simon Ellison
35, about over
coming one of
man's worst
fears: 'Erectile
Dysfunction'
(ED).
EA: Hiya Simon,
Would you like
to introduce
yourself?
SE: Certainly.
I'm Simon
Ellison I'm 35
years old and
have been
impotent for the
last 6 years.
EA: 29 seems
fairly young?
SE: Yes, but I
blame it on my
job. I'm in the
Navy- very high
up. My job
although very
enjoyable- is
very stressful.
It takes a lot
out of me. At
the time I was
married- I'm
divorced now.
Due to work and
ED my marriage
went down hill.
Looking back-
that could have
been a good
thing…(sighs)
but it's still a
shame.
EA: How did your
condition make
you feel?
SE: ED made me
feel very weak.
I had no
confidence- this
feeling quickly
spread to other
parts of my
life- my
marriage and
work began to
suffer. Everyone
began to notice
the change in
me.
EA: Weren't you
scared?
SE: Scared!
Terrified more
like! I couldn't
understand why.
Why me? I felt
very angry and
worried at the
same time. So
confused…it felt
like a part of
me had died….
EA: Worried…
SE: I was
worried about my
wife……wondering
when she would
notice…..waiting
for her to say
something about
the
situation…wondering
whether she'd go
elsewhere
EA: What was the
worst thing for
you about the
situation?
SE: I am a
person who is
highly
energetic- I
love to be
involved in
everything and
anything is a
challenge-I
don't give up
till I succeed.
Can you imagine
what it was like
finding out I
was impotent?
Finding that a
part of me
didn't work was
so hard-and it
happened when I
was fairly
young-that made
the situation
worst-it
affected
everything- my
job, my
outlook-I became
highly
depressed-I felt
I had no one to
talk to. I
became
increasingly
frustrated, both
sexually and
mentally. I knew
I needed to take
action-but it
was so
hard…..but it
got a lot easier
as time went
on…..
EA: What was the
first step you
took?
SE: The first
and probably the
hardest step I
took was
admitting the
problem to
myself- after I
had admitted
this I could
then go on to
help myself.
EA: What about
your partner?
SE: After I had
admitted it to
myself, I then
went on to admit
it to Mandy, my
wife. This
wasn't actually
that hard- by
this time the
situation had
got so bad she
had realized
that something
pretty serious
must be up.
EA: How did she
react?
SE: Mandy was
fantastic. We
are still great,
close friends.
We only divorced
about 18 months
ago. Mandy
really supported
me; she
comforted me and
totally took the
lead. This was
exactly what I
needed-She told
that it didn't
matter-I had
done the hardest
thing- admitting
it her and
myself and the
rest would
follow and fall
into place.
EA: What
happened next?
SE: From this
point on Mandy
took charge of
me and looked
after me. She
told me that it
didn't matter
and that we were
a team…..that
together we
would fight and
sort out the
problem.
Together we
began
researching into
solutions…..We
also went to see
a councilor
EA: Did that
help you?
SE: Yes, it did.
It enabled me to
put the whole
thing in
proportion. I
realized that I
wasn't the only
open who was
suffering there
are many more
out there-not as
lucky as I was.
It also pointed
me in the right
direction. The
councilor gave
us many pointers
as to what step
to take next.
EA: What was
that next step?
SE: Mandy and I
began
researching on
the Internet.
I'd heard of
Viagra-but
didn't know
anything about
it-it just
seemed to be the
butt of
everyone's
jokes. Mandy
then suggested
that we went to
the Doctors-just
to ask about it-
to find out
whether I was
suitable
candidate for
the drug.
EA: Was it hard
to take this
step?
SE: No not
really….by this
time I'd already
been to see the
councilor. My
Doctor has been
my Doctor for
the last 10
years- I see him
as more of a
friend than a
Doctor. He
helped me
considerably. He
explained all
about Viagra and
the pros and
cons. He then
screened tests
to see if I was
suitable for
taking the
drug-which I
was!
EA: Go on….
SE: Well I
started taking
Viagra and the
Viagra
Experience just
simply took hold
of me. It was
fantastic- it
was like a new
lease of life.
Confidence came
flooding back.
It was like a
second
Honeymoon. That
first night I
was so nervous-
it was so
special it was
like
consummating our
marriage all
over again. I
was warned that
it might not
work-but I had
to give it a
try-I'll give
anything a try
once. I began to
feel much more
positive about
myself-the
change in my
life has been
amazing.
EA: Could you
tell me about
these changes?
SE: Mandy and I
got divorced
about 18 months
ago. We're still
great friends
and I will
always be so
grateful to her.
We just out grew
each other. I
have a serious
girlfriend at
the moment, we
live together.
She's 4 months
pregnant- can
you believe
that? One drug
has given me so
much-it's
changed my life
so much.
EA: Finally
Simon, what's
your advice for
other men?
SE: My advice is
simple-just tell
someone and take
the first step.
The results are
life changing-
my life is
evidence of
that…..
We conducted
this interview
about viagra
because many men
ask about it. Of
course by using
natural
enlargement and
the penis pills
you will never
have a problem
with impotency.
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